You can't run away from your need to submit Your psyche will always take you back to that self same place. So Embrace it!

Yes I know there are days that you do not feel at all submissive. Maybe you have had a testosterone fuelled day at the office. Maybe your favourite team have found some moderate degree of success. You have all been there, such are your hard wired misogynistic tendencies you have likely have stared at the pretty girl opposite you on the train. Maybe Her well developed breasts are hard not to notice. You are desperate not to get caught in the act but you struggle not to as you can't help but imagine touching or god for bid oiling them. In some ways She is torturing you for your lack of self control. That frustration torments, distracts and brings on male irritability. That pent up frustration has so many ramifications No doubt you've been short with your Wife or Partner upon returning home off the back of it. I dare say it has happened to you. But you could you imagine it now, you return home to be greeted by your loving Wife as you walk into the lounge yet you choose to make some unsavoury grumpy remark. The trains were crowded so clearly you have every right vent at anyone and everyone such is your lack of control. Your Wife turns away from you after that clumsy insensitive comment. Dismayed by your strop.
Maybe the sexual frustration you felt after seeing that girl on the train has got the better of your tongue.
You Wife removes Herself from the room not wanting to soak up anymore of your unsavoury energy. Your head pointing at the floor all you here the click clack of heels as she walks from the bedroom to your position in your abode, now in her peep toe high heels carrying a whip in one hand and a bar of soap in the other. You are shocked and realise your unsatisfactory tone did not go over Her head. No your Wife the individual that runs your household is unimpressed. You are pushed firmly over the arm of the sofa. This a Woman that gets up early and unlike you hits the gym for two hours so there is no denying Her physical prowess. Your trousers are yanked to the floor, your belt buckle catching your appendage on the way down. Oh I bet that smarts. You moan like a little boy but cannot contest Her guile.
Yanked to far down and such is your position you are somewhat compromised by your now vulnerable position. You start to apologise and protest, your faux pas coming into sharp and immediate mental focus. However your protests are short lived as that bar of soap is pushed firmly into your mouth.
Oh when will you learn! You feel the first blow from her whip your derriere erupts in searing pain as rhythmic strokes bit into your flesh. This is an intolerable feeling yet you cannot move as her downward pressure keeps you pinned. A position you will have no choice but to until she feels a lesson has been learned. When your Wife has finally finished with you. You are allowed to stand. Still with your trousers at half mast the bar of soap still gripped in your mouth. God forbid you should drop it as the whipping would start over. You crave Her comfort. Her nurturing manner after the nasty lesson that you deep down know you deserved. What a sight you must look as your Wife lectures you about manners and how you should greet your Wife. She after all tried to embrace you upon your arrival with a sincere wish to bath you in warmth. And you for your part simply let yourself down. So you really have no complaints about the whipping. If fact you will do well to avoid that permanent chastity cage you both sometimes play with at the weekend. Yet as She gives you firm words of wisdom you start to become aroused. Something not lost on your Wife. She knows that you crave even everyday boundaries to be enforced and still you struggle to admit it to yourself. Your appendage heading skyward betrays your thoughts. That Girl on the train has no interest in developing you or training you to be a better male, but your Wife does. So be honest with Her explain your short comings and your need to have your flaws dealt with. You might be surprised at how your life develops. And when she is standing over you ready to use your your tongue when ever she wants. Pleased at the sight of you in your new collar you will be glad you opened up to Her. In the knowledge you would have come full circle.