When returning home from visiting a Professional Dominatrix do practice the lessons you've been taught in session?
- private64
- Oct 31
- 4 min read
Updated: Nov 2
And by this I mean do you show a new found Reverence for your Wife or Partner? I like to think that any Dominatrix worth their salt is always looking to improve the beta male that She is presented with or enforcing boundaries.

As I have previously written I have many Wife's that send me their respective husbands to be disciplined. Frequently with a list of misdemeanours that have taken place in the home as well as monthly maintenance and reminders of their place within the household. Husbands are sent to me because often a Wife simply does not want to hurt their beloved. It would be too upsetting seeing and hearing their loved ones in distress. However they know their failures need to be addressed. With a firm hand and the right lesson to be delivered.
I have no qualms dealing with poor male performance. Hearing the screams of a husband who has clearly let his Wife down, pain mixed with an apology, is quite the aphrodisiac to some of us.
There are Wife's that do accompany their husbands and enjoy the spectacle of seeing their, 'man' dealt with in person. Claire one particular Lady brings her husband in every two months. And as we sit together sipping tea in my office whilst discussing his inadequate performance not to mention his less than satisfactory appendage it always seems to motivate Her to request ever more brutal chastisement for her husband.
Poor jack sits in the middle of the room on a high wooden stool perched naked all but his tiny cock cage seen and not heard as we continue to put his world to rights. It's as if he wasn't even in the room.
That is until we start to question jack as to why he fell short in specific areas. Having two Women fire questions at you demanding instant answers and the ones you are able to respond to are immediately picked apart. I suppose such a grilling can be quite humiliating for a poor beta male.
Whilst he may not like the directness of the conversation it serves to help him relate to why his Wife has made the appointment for him to visit me.
We make our way from my office across my court yard to my Dungeons. The click clack of our heels on the hard concrete paving in stark contrast to the pads of jack's bare feet walking two paces behind. Still naked just the subtle clank of his padlock hitting the body of his metal cage.
With Jack now strapped down ready for punishment I recommend certain implements but always allow Claire the final say. It is after all Her husband, however I feel the lesson is too soft I will always promote a nastier weapon to be used. It is after all for Jacks own good. We want him to leave a better more diligent husband.
Jacks well deserved howls are music to my ears. If only he had completed all of Claire's chores. The forgotten dry cleaning to collect and when will that pile of ironing finally be completed. I have to say Claire is a reasonable soul and gives plenty of time for tasks. But she hates corners cut. Sloppy application will not do. And whilst I may enjoy thrashing a male in this instance it would be hard to argue jacks case.
Surely a hours punishment is better than a prolonged marital argument. Listening to jacks screamed apologies, imploring that immediate improvements in his performance would happen all in an effort to not have to endure one more cut of the dragon cane or the thud of the Canadian flogger vindicate Claire's course of action in my opinion.
And when we are through jacks tears flow as much through emotion as his burning derriere he both apologies to his Wife but thanks Her for keeping him as Her husband and taking the trouble to improve him.
Once released they hold one another as he sobs. You can feel the magnetism between them and his profound remorse. Such is jacks emotional state he will spontaneously starts kissing Her pumps over and over kiss after kiss a feverish outpouring of devotion.

Such can be the intensity that on occasion Claire will allow him to orally gratify Her at which point I discreetly exit the Dungeon such intimacy between a couple is private and to be respected.
Claire and jack visit with regularity and I have seen a change in them both for the better but not every couple has that dynamic.
This does not mean that if you visit you leave the lessons you learned desert you at my gates. You are here to serve me but you are owned by your Wife or Partner. She may not share your desires but that does not mean you cannot show gratitude and subservience for Her being in your life. She tolerance towards your many flaws and the fact she is always there to kiss your wounds better demands your obedience.
You may find that as you submit or defer to Her way of thinking. Dealing with all the domestic chores in no time she will become accustomed to the routine. Taking it for granted even. She will begin to assert Herself over you.
You will find yourself taking pride in your service. And on that fateful day when you find yourself over Her lap being spanked with the hairbrush those dreams of being in a Female Led relationship may have just started to become true for you.

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